First off ...i wanna thank one of you guyssssđ, for bringing this to my attention.
I honestly thought i had a blog post on this and i was so shocked when i found out that i didn't.
Cos this is one of the most logistical types of weddings and it's something we need talk about in depth.
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So today, Iâm going to walk you through 3 Ways you can approach weddings like this.
Let's get into it.
Option 1: The Classic "Guests Move Out, Team Moves In" Flip
This one is very common.
So here ceremony ends, everyone stands up, you hug your friends/relatives and then everyone is ushered to a cocktail hour area while your people flip the room.
How to Execute it:
Now if youâre choosing this option, the most important thing to understand is that ...this transition only feels stressful when it's not planned properly.
Your cocktail hour should be treated as a real part of your timeline, not just a filler moment, so it needs to be a bit longer than usual (1hr-ish).
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Now you'll need someone who will help guide guests out of the ceremony space, keep them comfortably occupied during cocktail hour and make sure no one wanders back inside while the room is mid-flip.
Even if youâre not hiring a full wedding planner ...get a wedding coordinator or family member to help you with this.
It will just reduce so much chaos and make everything run smoother.
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Now behind the scenes, you also need a clear plan for who is actually flipping the space.
Many venues that host weddings like this already have staffs who are trained to handle flips, and if thatâs the case
...talk to them early!
Ask how many people they provide, how long they typically need, and exactly what they handle versus what your decorator handles.
But if your venue doesnât provide a flip crew, then youâll need to get one yourself.
And most importantly those people will need directions before the wedding day.
So they should understand the floor plan, know where the tables are going, what needs to move, and what absolutely should not be touched.
A flip is not the time for guesswork.

Now during cocktail hour, your other vendors should be involved in keeping guests engaged so the transition feels natural.
Some couples use this time to take pictures
...just make sure your photographer knows in advance so they use it intentionally.
Your caterer should also already be prepared to serve drinks and small bites.
Finger foods, passed appetizers, and visible bar service do alot of the heavy lifting here because ...guests who are eating and sipping are happy guests!.
Music also matters too.
Having your DJ set up in the cocktail space keeps the energy alive.
Silence makes people feel like theyâre waiting around.
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Inside the room, how things are set up before the ceremony will also directly affect how easy and fast the flip is.
If tables need to be moved or adjusted, avoid pre-setting fragile items like glassware, plates, chargers, or tall centerpieces.
They are best added after the flip is complete.
Also think of seating
...for your sanity avoid the individual place cards, use a seating chart instead.
That is all for Option 1 ...lets move on to 2.
Option 2: Splitting the Room Into Two Sections

Credit: Baker Event Co on Pinterest
For this one, you basically split the venue into 2 sides before guests even arrive.
So one side is styled for the ceremony, the other is already set for the reception.
How to Execute it:
With this option, most venues that regularly host weddings like this already know how this works.
So they'd usually have some kind of built-in barrier they use to split the room ...sometimes itâs draping, sometimes itâs panels, sometimes itâs even fabric walls.
The point isnât what they use, itâs that the reception side of the room should be completely hidden and fully ready before the ceremony even begins.
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So behind that drape, everything should already be set.
Tables in their final positions.
Chairs placed correctly.
Decor styled.
The goal is that once the ceremony is over, the venue simply removes the divider and the reception space is instantly revealed.

Credit: Premier Parties on Pinterest
Now what happens next depends on how your venue handles the ceremony setup.
In some spaces, the ceremony area stays exactly where it is and simply becomes part of the reception
...maybe the front area will turn into the dance floor, or the aisle naturally opens up the room.
While for other venues, the ceremony pieces are quickly cleared away after the divider comes down.
But none of this should be decided on the wedding day.
This is something you want to walk through with your venue ahead of time so everyone knows what stays, what goes, and what changes.
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This is also why communication with your venue matters so much for flip weddings.
So ask them what their usual flow looks like when they split a room.
-Ask how long it'll takes them to remove the draping
-Ask what happens to the ceremony setup once the reception is revealed.
Let's move on to Option 3.
For the Last Option: Pre-Setting the Whole Room (Guests Stay at Their Tables)

Credit: Margo crutchfield on Pinterest
This one is the simplest in terms of guest movement.
So here...your guests come in and sit at the same tables theyâre going to eat at.
How to Execute it:
With this option, the most important thing here is the front area of the room.
The space where you stand during the ceremony is what later becomes your dance floor or central gathering area.
So when youâre planning this option, you want to be very intentional about keeping that area as clean and flexible as possible.
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So less permanent decor and more pieces that can be removed or shifted easily.
If you have a ceremony arch ...it should be something that can be rolled away easily, aisle decor that can be quickly lifted, florals that can be repurposed somewhere else once the ceremony is over.

Also because guests are seated at their dinner tables during the ceremony, your table layout really matters too.
You want to make sure everyone can actually see you without craning their necks or twisting themselves awkwardly.
This would mean wider spacing between tables and keeping your centerpieces low so sightlines arenât blocked.
If something looks beautiful but blocks the view, itâs not worth it for this setup.
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Lighting also does a lot of the heavy lifting here too.
Your ceremony lighting should feel softer and more focused toward the front, so guests naturally look where you are.
But once the ceremony is over, that lighting should shift ...dim the lights so that the space feels reception-ready.
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And once your guests are finally seated then you can start placing your glasswares, plates etc.
Avoid doing placing them too early ..incase you might need slight adjusting for the tables.
To Wrap it up...
Youâre not the first bride to do it, and you definitely wonât be the last... so don't panic too much.
As long as youâre proactive, and you communicate the plan ahead of time, it will come together.
And even if it takes a little longer than planned or one of your guest wanders the wrong way ... it's still okay.
These are grown adults.
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Anyways ...this is all i have for you.
As always if you have any questions ...just email me (plannarly@gmail.com).
I love hearing from you guys.
And i'll see you in my next blog post.
Byeeeeeee